The First Three Simple Things A Single Woman Must Know About A Man - #1

His Full Name

As crazy as this may sound and just as ludicrous to mention, everyday women are perfectly comfortable in just learning a man's first name (or just the name that he gives her). By the end of the week, the man has been in her home, around her family and children, eaten her food, helped himself to anything in the house from the refrigerator to command control of the TV remote, and has become the self-proclaimed king in her bedroom.

Then in the next few days, when he ignores her calls and she puts someone up to call to see if he answers, she finds herself devastated - wondering what happened.

The answer to what happened is that he quickly summed it up that she had no self-respect since she gave up her body so quickly and all he had to do was smile.  The least that a woman must do is obtain a man’s full legal name.

If a man hesitates one second to give his full name, then that is the first red flag and really the only flag needed for a woman to keep it moving.  There should be no reason why a grown man must think about giving out his whole name. 

Any man who is afraid to give his last name has something to hide.  If he is so-called cautious to sharing his full name to someone he has just met, then he has no business stepping up to an attractive, intelligent, lovely, classy, drama-free woman.  It does not matter whatever reason he gives in not sharing his last name. There are no second chances for a man to tell a woman his full name.

Now on the other hand, a woman should not feel obligated to give out her full name because she does not know the man from Adam.  Anyone’s full name is easily searchable on today's Internet.  By giving out your name, this is all "Jack" needs to begin digging.  “Jack” can now pull up where you live, pull up your family members' names, download family photos, and gather all kind of info about where you work from your social media sites, public court documents, etc.

If the man has a problem with you not sharing with him your last name, then that is the first sign of disrespect because he is not respecting your philosophy about not giving out your last name to just anyone who asks. 

In today’s times, you must be careful when going out.  If a man asks you for your phone number or name, it is not necessary to be flippant when you do not wish to be bothered.  Politely turn down his advances and do not give him a wrong phone number to make him go away.  

Unfortunately, there are reported cases where women have lost their lives turning down a man’s advances.

If a man shares only a nickname or street name -- that's not acceptable.  The name that you want is the name on his birth certificate, driver's license, or state ID.  

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If You Don't Know This, You Don't Know Jack by Tonya Nicol Davis

If you are a woman who is single and dating or a woman who is already married and settled, this book opens the door to a discovery in areas about the man in your life that you may not have known before.

Learn more about:

*What to do, what to have, and what to look for to be in a healthy, loving, and happy relationship 
*How to save precious time from living in drama and disappointment while dating or in a committed relationship 
*What a single woman needs to know about any man whom she is introducing into her life and into the lives of her family 
*Aspects a married woman can explore to learn more about the man to whom she has committed to be in her life

This book contains adult/mature subject matter.

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